I also looked at my debug file, this is what is got:
20:02:19 T:5456 DEBUG: SECTION:LoadDLL(special://xbmcbin/system/libcurl.dll)
20:02:19 T:5456 NOTICE: Running database version Addons16
20:02:19 T:5456 DEBUG: CDatabaseManager::Initialize, updating databases...
20:02:19 T:5456 NOTICE: Running database version ViewModes6
20:02:19 T:5456 NOTICE: Running database version Textures13
20:02:19 T:2684 DEBUG: CRemoteControl::Connect - connecting to: 127.0.0.1:24000 ...
20:02:20 T:2684 DEBUG: CRemoteControl::Connect - failed to connect
20:02:20 T:2684 INFO: CRemoteControl:
rocess - failed to connect to irss, will keep retrying every 5 seconds
20:02:40 T:5456 ERROR: Unable to open database: MyMusic48 [2003](Can't connect to MySQL server on 'XXX.XXX.X.XXX' (10060))
20:03:01 T:5456 ERROR: Unable to open database: MyMusic47 [2003](Can't connect to MySQL server on 'XXX.XXX.X.XXX' (10060))
20:03:22 T:5456 ERROR: Unable to open database: MyMusic46 [2003](Can't connect to MySQL server on 'XXX.XXX.X.XXX' (10060))
20:03:28 T:5736 DEBUG: CAESinkDirectSound:
einitialize: Cleaning up
20:03:44 T:5456 ERROR: Unable to open database: MyMusic45 [2003](Can't connect to MySQL server on 'XXX.XXX.X.XXX' (10060))
20:04:05 T:5456 ERROR: Unable to open database: MyMusic44 [2003](Can't connect to MySQL server on 'XXX.XXX.X.XXX' (10060))
20:04:26 T:5456 ERROR: Unable to open database: MyMusic43 [2003](Can't connect to MySQL server on 'XXX.XXX.X.XXX' (10060))
20:04:47 T:5456 ERROR: Unable to open database: MyMusic42 [2003](Can't connect to MySQL server on 'XXX.XXX.X.XXX' (10060))
20:05:08 T:5456 ERROR: Unable to open database: MyMusic41 [2003](Can't connect to MySQL server on 'XXX.XXX.X.XXX' (10060))
20:05:29 T:5456 ERROR: Unable to open database: MyMusic40 [2003](Can't connect to MySQL server on 'XXX.XXX.X.XXX' (10060))
20:05:50 T:5456 ERROR: Unable to open database: MyMusic39 [2003](Can't connect to MySQL server on 'XXX.XXX.X.XXX' (10060))
20:06:11 T:5456 ERROR: Unable to open database: MyMusic38 [2003](Can't connect to MySQL server on 'XXX.XXX.X.XXX' (10060))